How can I talk to a girl who I’ve seen around but never spoken to, without looking like a freak?
Do what everyone else does: bring up meaningless crap and avoid trying to be the next Casanova.
In most social situations (waiting in a line, for example), people are amazingly receptive to talk- girls are no exception. The irony of this is that most guys have the perception that randomly talking to the opposite sex (on any topic) is “creepy” or “odd”- which is absolutely not true. In reality, oftentimes, it is actually creepier/more freakish to not bring up conversation or otherwise proverbially breathe down someone’s neck.
The best way to start a random conversation is to just start the conversation about something meaningless and segue onto something from there. While the weather may be a bit stereotypical, that’s the kind of discussion you want- even if it’s asking a question you already know the answer to. Find something random- be it the situation, the weather, even something like what she’s wearing- and start the conversation. As meaningless as it may be, it is enough inertia to get real conversations started.
One note, though- do not use pickup lines or try to be a pickup artist, especially in casual situations. Most guys, when overconfident in their ability to pick up women, begin to use canned pickup lines or other “techniques”- a very bad idea. There is virtually nothing you can say to a girl the first time you meet them that will wet their panties, so don’t even bother trying to come up with some. Cute meaningless conversation is your happy place.
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