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Getting over an ex-girlfriend

Written by admin, Saturday, June 11th, 2011 in Q&As

im in a relationship with a women whom im deeply in love with, she is my first real Love… and we have been in the relationship for almost two years and have known each other for longer. But the relationship as of lately has turned for the WORST (really bad, chris brown bad!) and we had just been pulling apart lately, yet i still love her to no end! I dont know how to let her go and today we got into a huge fight, phone fight, and texting argument and i tried calling her a couple hours later only to find out that she blocked my number and im to presume that she broke up with me, now is the question, how to find the courage to let her go and move on?

In situations like this, courage predominantly comes from time and less from something you actively do. To be frank, there’s little you can do to magically make yourself feel better after any breakup — things will just get progressively easier over time.

With that being said, there are some things you can do that will help. First off, don’t keep her in your phone or otherwise keep stuff of hers — it won’t help, and it will only serve to remind you of her and encourage you to harass her. Second, don’t immediately jump in the dating game, but enjoy being a bachelor — there are benefits to being single, so enjoy them now that you have them. Third off, find something for you to do new that will keep your mind off her — try out a new hobby, video game, club, or the like.

The more you keep your mind off her (and refrain from contacting her) and the more you enjoy yourself, the better off you will be.

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One Response to Getting over an ex-girlfriend

  1. tobias says:

    thank you this is helping me out right now! i wrote this and this is helping but i was wondering if you could magically give more advice because i still find it hard to let her go completely… is that normal?

    thanks a lot !!!!

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