Comments on: The lies of “Hit it and Quit it” http://www.wellcultured.com/sex/118/the-lies-of-hit-it-and-quit-it Well Cultured is a men's online magazine with advice and reviews on fashion, dating, finances, health, music, movies and many other topics, as well as a robust message board and the Well Cultured Guide, a freely editable community wiki. Tue, 06 Jan 2009 06:44:14 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Warren Ellis http://www.wellcultured.com/sex/118/the-lies-of-hit-it-and-quit-it/comment-page-1#comment-2027 Warren Ellis Wed, 31 Dec 2008 01:52:13 +0000 http://www.wellcultured.com/?p=118#comment-2027 Actually, I have found happiness in exploiting both women and men. Actually, I have found happiness in exploiting both women and men.

]]> By: Tyciol http://www.wellcultured.com/sex/118/the-lies-of-hit-it-and-quit-it/comment-page-1#comment-1498 Tyciol Tue, 11 Nov 2008 02:18:58 +0000 http://www.wellcultured.com/?p=118#comment-1498 I think it occured to him. You can enjoy sex without love... for the moment. However, it pays to look to the future, if that will remain satisfying, or if it might get boring doing things with people without connecting with or respecting them. To always have to put up a facade of false coolness sounds pathetic and sad and boring to me. To become legitimately cool for your own purposes, higher ones than getting vagoo, is the real appeal I think. People have bad experience with 'love', but it's probably the kind they throw themselves at to experience love rather than something entered into reservedly without expectations. This whole 'if you're over 25, if you're around 21' stuff is totally stereotyping and annoying. Look, we understand the idea of attachment and drama free sex, but it would nice to at least have a friendship that isn't going to fall apart from that. Exploitation or manipulation don't lead to a solid arrangement like that. I think it occured to him. You can enjoy sex without love… for the moment. However, it pays to look to the future, if that will remain satisfying, or if it might get boring doing things with people without connecting with or respecting them. To always have to put up a facade of false coolness sounds pathetic and sad and boring to me. To become legitimately cool for your own purposes, higher ones than getting vagoo, is the real appeal I think.

People have bad experience with ‘love’, but it’s probably the kind they throw themselves at to experience love rather than something entered into reservedly without expectations.

This whole ‘if you’re over 25, if you’re around 21′ stuff is totally stereotyping and annoying. Look, we understand the idea of attachment and drama free sex, but it would nice to at least have a friendship that isn’t going to fall apart from that. Exploitation or manipulation don’t lead to a solid arrangement like that.

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.wellcultured.com/sex/118/the-lies-of-hit-it-and-quit-it/comment-page-1#comment-374 Anonymous Sun, 20 Jul 2008 13:10:19 +0000 http://www.wellcultured.com/?p=118#comment-374 This article is far too one-sided. You seem to be of the opinion that any one-night-stand or 'fling' is a bad thing, and that commitment and constant relationships are the way to go. Disagree. Okay, I can understand it if you're over 25, but let's be honest here, I think most readers are below this age, more around 21, and obviously this isn't the complete story. Anyway, if you're below the age of 25, I think it's a good idea to have one night stands, and 'flings'. I'm not saying it's ALL that you should have, but I think to only have 'proper' relationships at this stage, and NO 'less' serious relationships could be damaging for later years, when you have a mid life crisis, finally realise you never experimented, or lived life a little bit on the hedonistic side when it came to women, possibly leading to a worse situation than if you had actually experimented in your youth. By no means be a misogynist, but for Christ's sake, have some fun! This article is far too one-sided. You seem to be of the opinion that any one-night-stand or ‘fling’ is a bad thing, and that commitment and constant relationships are the way to go. Disagree. Okay, I can understand it if you’re over 25, but let’s be honest here, I think most readers are below this age, more around 21, and obviously this isn’t the complete story. Anyway, if you’re below the age of 25, I think it’s a good idea to have one night stands, and ‘flings’. I’m not saying it’s ALL that you should have, but I think to only have ‘proper’ relationships at this stage, and NO ‘less’ serious relationships could be damaging for later years, when you have a mid life crisis, finally realise you never experimented, or lived life a little bit on the hedonistic side when it came to women, possibly leading to a worse situation than if you had actually experimented in your youth. By no means be a misogynist, but for Christ’s sake, have some fun!

]]> By: Anon http://www.wellcultured.com/sex/118/the-lies-of-hit-it-and-quit-it/comment-page-1#comment-369 Anon Sat, 19 Jul 2008 05:28:45 +0000 http://www.wellcultured.com/?p=118#comment-369 You know, if you want a shallow cum dumpster for sex, just get some money. Won't even need pickup lines. But if you want someone for real, listen to this man. You know, if you want a shallow cum dumpster for sex, just get some money. Won’t even need pickup lines.

But if you want someone for real, listen to this man.

]]> By: Burakumin http://www.wellcultured.com/sex/118/the-lies-of-hit-it-and-quit-it/comment-page-1#comment-355 Burakumin Thu, 17 Jul 2008 13:18:41 +0000 http://www.wellcultured.com/?p=118#comment-355 Having already been in plenty of relationships across the spectrum... sex and love, much like anything else, are things that need to come with balance. If you can't figure out what it is that you want and what would make you happy, then you stand no chance at understanding what other people may want/need/require of you to make that union work. As great as sex is, eventually it'll just become more of the same. You'll have the thrill for a while before wanting to move on... and eventually lack the allure to obtain it. Then again, that would require thought to understand and that'd be a bit too much to ask for from your average anonymous. Having already been in plenty of relationships across the spectrum… sex and love, much like anything else, are things that need to come with balance. If you can’t figure out what it is that you want and what would make you happy, then you stand no chance at understanding what other people may want/need/require of you to make that union work.

As great as sex is, eventually it’ll just become more of the same. You’ll have the thrill for a while before wanting to move on… and eventually lack the allure to obtain it. Then again, that would require thought to understand and that’d be a bit too much to ask for from your average anonymous.

]]> By: zoomzoom http://www.wellcultured.com/sex/118/the-lies-of-hit-it-and-quit-it/comment-page-1#comment-353 zoomzoom Wed, 16 Jul 2008 15:13:44 +0000 http://www.wellcultured.com/?p=118#comment-353 article is 100% correct, stop bawwing u faggots because u just realized that the main thing u strive for every day is a useless act to get another notch in your belt that makes you feel like you have accomplished something when you really havent made yourself happy and wont anytime soon article is 100% correct, stop bawwing u faggots because u just realized that the main thing u strive for every day is a useless act to get another notch in your belt that makes you feel like you have accomplished something when you really havent made yourself happy and wont anytime soon

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.wellcultured.com/sex/118/the-lies-of-hit-it-and-quit-it/comment-page-1#comment-343 Anonymous Tue, 15 Jul 2008 04:52:45 +0000 http://www.wellcultured.com/?p=118#comment-343 Butthurt iopq is Butthurt. Butthurt iopq is Butthurt.

]]> By: anonymous http://www.wellcultured.com/sex/118/the-lies-of-hit-it-and-quit-it/comment-page-1#comment-341 anonymous Mon, 14 Jul 2008 14:28:36 +0000 http://www.wellcultured.com/?p=118#comment-341 I was going to post 'in b4 BAWWWWWWWWWWW,' but, looking at the post above me... in after BAWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW I was going to post ‘in b4 BAWWWWWWWWWWW,’ but, looking at the post above me…

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]]> By: iopq http://www.wellcultured.com/sex/118/the-lies-of-hit-it-and-quit-it/comment-page-1#comment-316 iopq Fri, 11 Jul 2008 04:48:58 +0000 http://www.wellcultured.com/?p=118#comment-316 "Let’s not kid around- people like Neil Strauss and David DeAngelo are not geniuses at love." Neil Strauss has a hotter girlfriend than any girl you've ever dated. Watch his Oprah appearance. That's right, he's in a relationship. "True seduction does not require falsifying your history or pretending- it comes from being attractive with personality and being unique." What do you have to back this up? If you watch the numerous videos, read their books, they offer proof. What do you have to prove that you're right and they're wrong? "Let me say it straight: these men are misogynistic." And you're a bitch. Please ask your girlfriend for your balls back. “Let’s not kid around- people like Neil Strauss and David DeAngelo are not geniuses at love.”

Neil Strauss has a hotter girlfriend than any girl you’ve ever dated. Watch his Oprah appearance. That’s right, he’s in a relationship.

“True seduction does not require falsifying your history or pretending- it comes from being attractive with personality and being unique.”

What do you have to back this up? If you watch the numerous videos, read their books, they offer proof. What do you have to prove that you’re right and they’re wrong?

“Let me say it straight: these men are misogynistic.”

And you’re a bitch. Please ask your girlfriend for your balls back.

]]> By: BM http://www.wellcultured.com/sex/118/the-lies-of-hit-it-and-quit-it/comment-page-1#comment-284 BM Mon, 07 Jul 2008 04:28:37 +0000 http://www.wellcultured.com/?p=118#comment-284 I agree completely with the article on these books being bogus. But I have to ask myself, "Which has brought me more happiness, love or sex?" The resounding answer for me is sex. No woman has ever brought me anything good with love, and I can get all the love I need from my pet cat anyway. I agree completely with the article on these books being bogus. But I have to ask myself, “Which has brought me more happiness, love or sex?” The resounding answer for me is sex. No woman has ever brought me anything good with love, and I can get all the love I need from my pet cat anyway.

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