Comments on: Cougars: Fair Game or Not? http://www.wellcultured.com/sex/116/cougars-fair-game-or-not Well Cultured is a men's online magazine with advice and reviews on fashion, dating, finances, health, music, movies and many other topics, as well as a robust message board and the Well Cultured Guide, a freely editable community wiki. Wed, 19 Nov 2008 22:20:26 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6 By: Aline http://www.wellcultured.com/sex/116/cougars-fair-game-or-not#comment-388 Aline Tue, 22 Jul 2008 23:46:01 +0000 http://www.wellcultured.com/?p=116#comment-388 I simply don't care. If you love the person and want to be with him or her, age, genter and whatsoever does not matter. Really. And the way I'm going, I'll probably only get younger guys, lol I simply don’t care. If you love the person and want to be with him or her, age, genter and whatsoever does not matter. Really. And the way I’m going, I’ll probably only get younger guys, lol

]]> By: Certainly. http://www.wellcultured.com/sex/116/cougars-fair-game-or-not#comment-288 Certainly. Mon, 07 Jul 2008 17:20:21 +0000 http://www.wellcultured.com/?p=116#comment-288 Could you be more on the dot? Not only is discriminating because of age childish, it's blatantly rude. Plus, this whole.. "hunting" and "preying" idea is rather creepy and demeaning in its' own way. Could you be more on the dot?
Not only is discriminating because of age childish, it’s blatantly rude.
Plus, this whole.. “hunting” and “preying” idea is rather creepy and demeaning in its’ own way.

]]> By: Daniel http://www.wellcultured.com/sex/116/cougars-fair-game-or-not#comment-282 Daniel Sun, 06 Jul 2008 18:31:48 +0000 http://www.wellcultured.com/?p=116#comment-282 I have never heard of anything negative of Demi Moore's relationship with Ashton Kutcher. If anything she almost looked empowered by it. Anyways, all I can really say is that people do what they want to be happy. If a woman wants to go for a younger man, then she's more than welcome to. There's really no social stigma to being a "cougar." In fact, how can a word like that be even remotely offensive? It's a word that has been around for a long time and it has never been put on trial. I have never heard of anything negative of Demi Moore’s relationship with Ashton Kutcher. If anything she almost looked empowered by it. Anyways, all I can really say is that people do what they want to be happy. If a woman wants to go for a younger man, then she’s more than welcome to. There’s really no social stigma to being a “cougar.” In fact, how can a word like that be even remotely offensive? It’s a word that has been around for a long time and it has never been put on trial.

]]> By: Renee http://www.wellcultured.com/sex/116/cougars-fair-game-or-not#comment-279 Renee Sun, 06 Jul 2008 16:12:32 +0000 http://www.wellcultured.com/?p=116#comment-279 Yeah but the age difference does matter in our social discourse..look at the way Demi Moore was treated by the Media for her relationship vs, Michael Douglas or Marilyn Manson who both by the way had a larger age gap. It seems that dating young is only acceptable if men do it. Yeah but the age difference does matter in our social discourse..look at the way Demi Moore was treated by the Media for her relationship vs, Michael Douglas or Marilyn Manson who both by the way had a larger age gap. It seems that dating young is only acceptable if men do it.

]]> By: Daniel http://www.wellcultured.com/sex/116/cougars-fair-game-or-not#comment-278 Daniel Sun, 06 Jul 2008 13:52:26 +0000 http://www.wellcultured.com/?p=116#comment-278 I have never heard of anyone going for married people ever coming out of the situation in one piece. Whether it's girl seeking man, woman seeking guy, it's just something that should never ever even be thought about. Honestly, the discussion shouldn't even go past this because this is the WCA. This site is about being well cultured, and committing adultery is not being well cultured. On the other hand, if that woman is single then go for it. Sex is sex and we're at a point right now where an age difference doesn't matter a whole lot (unless it's 20 to 30 some odd years difference, then that's just weird). I have never heard of anyone going for married people ever coming out of the situation in one piece. Whether it’s girl seeking man, woman seeking guy, it’s just something that should never ever even be thought about. Honestly, the discussion shouldn’t even go past this because this is the WCA. This site is about being well cultured, and committing adultery is not being well cultured.

On the other hand, if that woman is single then go for it. Sex is sex and we’re at a point right now where an age difference doesn’t matter a whole lot (unless it’s 20 to 30 some odd years difference, then that’s just weird).

]]> By: Renee http://www.wellcultured.com/sex/116/cougars-fair-game-or-not#comment-270 Renee Sat, 05 Jul 2008 20:40:49 +0000 http://www.wellcultured.com/?p=116#comment-270 How about starting off by not referring to older women that date younger men as cougars..it is sexist and rude. Are you aware that there is no equivalent name for men that date younger women. This labeling is yet another attempt to control female sexuality and construct women as less than. As the question about age and dating but it can be done without resorting to demeaning labels. How about starting off by not referring to older women that date younger men as cougars..it is sexist and rude. Are you aware that there is no equivalent name for men that date younger women. This labeling is yet another attempt to control female sexuality and construct women as less than. As the question about age and dating but it can be done without resorting to demeaning labels.

]]> By: Thatismynoodle http://www.wellcultured.com/sex/116/cougars-fair-game-or-not#comment-256 Thatismynoodle Thu, 03 Jul 2008 02:35:59 +0000 http://www.wellcultured.com/?p=116#comment-256 I think it would depend on the chemistry of the relationship. To be honestly I probably wouldn't. The thought of dating someone in a different place in life would just not be something I would be interested in. I think it would depend on the chemistry of the relationship.
To be honestly I probably wouldn’t. The thought of dating someone in a different place in life would just not be something I would be interested in.

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